Jun 01 2009

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THE Last Survivor of the Titanic Dies

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She was only nine weeks old when her parents and brother boarded the Titanic, and now Elizabeth Gladys Dean, better known to friends as Millvina Dean, has died–the last known survivor of the ill-fated ship that hit an iceberg in the frigid Atlantic Ocean on April 14, 1912. Some 1,500 people died; the ship was thought to be unsinkable and so did not carry enough lifeboats.

Agence France Presse reports that Dean, who died on May 31 at age 97 in a nursing home in Hampshire, England after suffering a short illness, survived as an infant on the Titanic when she was bundled up in a sack and then carried to safety. Her mother Georgette Eva and brother Bertram also made it, but her father, Bertram Frank, was among those who died, according to the British Titanic Society, of which Dean was the honorary president. Millvina was the youngest passenger on board the RMS Titanic.

Dean’s family was moving to America where her father hoped to begin a new life in Kansas by opening a tobacco store. After their rescue, the family returned to England. Millvina was eight years old before she was even told that she had been on board the ship. The president of the U.S.-based Titanic International Society, Charles Haas, mourned the loss of the “last living link to the Titanic” and a “dear friend.” He told AFP, “While she never sought the limelight, she enjoyed its results in meeting people and travelling the world. Her story inspires us as a story of hope after adversity and teaches that a full and rewarding life can follow personal tragedy and loss. We will miss her very much, but never forget her or the other 2,200 aboard Titanic.”

Dean never married and worked as a cartographer for the British government during World War II and then later for an engineering company in Southampton. It wasn’t until the wreckage of the Titanic was found in 1985 that she became a celebrity. She told the BBC in 2000 that while she didn’t mind the attention, she was surprised by it. “I think sometimes they look on me as if I am the Titanic!” While she accepted an invitation in 1997 to complete her family’s journey to the United States aboard the QE2, she declined to attend the premiere of the blockbuster movie “Titanic.” Why? She thought it would be just too upsetting.

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May 02 2009

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Look What They Found in a London Ditch!

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On these archeological findings therefore proven….. that it’s a human nature and not silly to be self-conscious on our physical appearance and to use all sorts of thing like cream, cosmetics, etc to hide our flaws or to enhance our looks.

Now enjoy the read…..

Look What They Found in a London Ditch!

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The ancient Romans must have had soft, beautiful, and fashionably pale skin.

In July 2003, archaeologists who were excavating the site of a major Roman temple in London made an astounding find: a sealed box containing a white cream that still bears the finger marks of the person who last used it. And that would have been nearly 2,000 years ago. The find was considered of major significance because the original contents were still in such good condition.

Fast forward 16 months: Scientists have analyzed the tin and found that the white cream is so sophisticated it could rival today’s top cosmetics. “It is quite a complicated little mixture,” Richard Evershed, an analytical chemist at the University of Bristol in southwestern England, told Reuters. “Perhaps they didn’t understand the chemistry of everything, but they obviously knew what they were doing.”

The chemical analysis of the cream shows it is made from about 40 percent animal fat, likely from sheep or cattle, and 40 percent starch and tin oxide. The creamy base is formed by the fat, while the opaque white color comes from the tin oxide. “As far as I can tell, the tin oxide was quite inert so it wouldn’t cause any dermatological problems,” Evershed explained to Reuters. When the Bristol University scientists concocted their own version of the Roman cream, they said it left a smooth, powdery texture when rubbed into the skin.

The tiny pot–it’s just 2.4 inches across by 2 inches high–was discovered in a waterlogged ditch, but was preserved under wooden planks in thick layers of mud. It’s thought that the cream was probably used by fashionable Roman women who desired a fair complexion, which was quite popular in those days.

“We’re speculating that it would have been some sort of foundation cream,” Evershed told Reuters. “It gives us yet another insight into the sophisticated way in which our ancestors used materials from their environment. This is an ancient technology and one that doesn’t differ so much from some of the cosmetic technologies in use today.”

The dig just two miles south of London has revealed several other treasures, including a stone tablet that bears the earliest known inscription of the Roman name for London. Also found were pieces of statues, leather shoes, and a wooden writing tablet. The temple, which dates from 50 AD, contains two small temples, a guest hours, plinths for statues and a stone pillar.

The study findings were reported in the journal Nature.

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Apr 22 2009

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E-A-R-T-H Day!

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Today (April 22) is Earth  Day! On Celebration let us remind ourselves that we are sustained by the earth; in so doing let us learn ways to have the earth greener and livable for the next, and next generations to come! One of them is to start and have the habitual habit using the toxin free cleaners to use at the office, outdoors and most esp. inside our homes. And, this can saves us some money too, so to speak…..’going green save you some green!’ I’ve just tried ketchup to polish my stainless kitchen gadgets, pots and pans, now they shine so bright! Now, enjoy the read and you may also want to print this out for everyday/future reference! _Tinahand.gif image by HappyTina_2008Spring cleaning is an age-old tradition that has its roots in the ancient Middle East. It has long been a fixture of colder climates, where thorough cleaning isn’t easy in the winter. But the process of seasonal sprucing up has also become popular in milder regions, in part because of the sense of renewal and peace of mind it provides.

The trouble is, many conventional cleaning products are loaded with strong, artificial colors and fragrances and harsh cleansing agents like bleach, ammonia, alcohol and more. These chemicals can off-gas powerful and toxic fumes, which can irritate eyes and the respiratory systems of the sensitive. Many also contain unnecessary antibacterial compounds, which may be leading to antibiotic resistance.

Instead of stocking your house with toxic chemicals that may potentially poison children and pets, not to mention harm indoor air quality, promote a healthy environment with natural, green cleaning. It’s easy to tackle seemingly tough stains and grime with common, safe household items like baking soda, borax, salt, lemon juice and even ketchup. You’ll also save money! That’s what your grandparents did.

Spotless Kitchen
  Countertops and Sinks

 

Baking Soda and Water: Keep counters clean by sprinkling with baking soda, then scrubbing with a damp cloth or sponge. If you have stains, knead the baking soda and water into a paste and let set for a while before you remove. This method also works great for stainless steel sinks, cutting boards, containers, refrigerators, oven tops and more.

Kosher Salt and Water: If you need a tougher abrasive on sinks and cast iron pans, sprinkle on kosher salt, and scrub with a wet cloth or sponge.

Natural Disinfectant: To knock out germs, mix 2 cups of water, 3 tablespoons of liquid soap and 20 to 30 drops of tea tree oil. Spray or rub on countertops and other kitchen surfaces.

 OVENS

Baking Soda and Water: Coat the inside of your dirty appliance with a paste made from water and baking soda. Let stand overnight. Then, don gloves and scour off that grime. Make spotless with a moist cloth.

Fruits and Vegetables

Baking Soda: Worried about toxic pesticide residue, germs and dirty fingerprints on your juicy peaches and crisp carrots? Just sprinkle a little baking soda on wet produce, then gently scrub and rinse.

Beautiful Bathrooms

    Porcelain and Tile

Baking Soda and Water (with kosher salt): To keep bathroom surfaces clean and odor-free, dust with baking soda, and scrub with a moist sponge or cloth. Kosher salt can be added to the mix to help with tougher grime.

Lemon Juice or Vinegar: Attack stains, mildew and any grease streaks by spraying or dousing with lemon juice or vinegar. Let sit a few minutes, then scrub with a stiff brush.

Disinfectant: Instead of bleach, make your own bathroom disinfectant by mixing 2 cups of water, 3 tablespoons of liquid soap and 20 to 30 drops of tea tree oil.

  Mirrors and Windows

White Vinegar, Water and Newspaper: No, your mother-in-law isn’t a vampire; you just need to clean those mirrors. It’s simple: mix 2 tablespoons of white vinegar with a gallon of water, and dispense into a used spray bottle. Squirt on, then scrub with newspaper, not paper towels, which cause streaking.

If you can’t stand the smell of vinegar, you can substitute straight lemon juice or club soda (don’t dilute either in water).

 Clogged Drain

Baking Soda and Boiling Water (vinegar if needed): Feeling plugged up? Pour 1/2 cup of baking soda into the problem drain, followed by 2 cups of boiling water. If that isn’t doing it for you, chase the baking soda with a 1/2 cup of vinegar and cover tightly, allowing the vigorous fizzing of the chemical reaction to break up the gunk. Then flush that with 1 gallon of boiling water.

Underfoot

    Wood Floors

 

   Oil and White Vinegar: You’ve heard that wood floors are more hygienic than carpet, but you aren’t sure how to keep that gorgeous glow all year long? Just mix equal parts oil and white vinegar, and apply in a thin coat.Rub it in well to bring out the best in the grain.

  Carpet and Rugs

Club Soda: If you do have carpet, or even just some area rugs, it’s inevitable that someone will spill something colored. Your best defense is to clean it up immediately with club soda. Here’s how: First, carefully lift off any solids. Then, liberally pour on club soda. Blot with an old rag until all the color from the spill is absorbed by your cloth. The soda’s carbonation should bring the spill to the surface, and the salts in the soda thwart staining.

Cornmeal: For big spills, dump cornmeal on the mess, wait 5 to 15 minutes, and vacuum up all the gunk.

Spot Cleaner: Make yourself a spot cleaner by mixing 1/4 cup liquid soap or detergent in a blender, with 1/3 cup water. Mix until foamy. Spray on, then rinse with vinegar.

Just Beat It: For routine cleaning, take rugs outside and beat the dirt out of them the old-fashioned way.

To Deodorize: Sprinkle baking soda or cornstarch on the carpet or rug, using about 1 cup per medium-sized room. Vacuum after 30 minutes. Or mix 2 parts cornmeal with 1 part borax, sprinkle it around, and leave for an hour. Then vacuum.

The Fabrics of Our Lives

  Antique Linens

Sunlight: What could be easier than sanitizing and removing stains… with sunlight! (Just don’t do it too often with fragile pieces, because they can start to break down). Simply lay your old lace, curtains and other fine linens on the grass in the sun for a few hours. Dirtier pieces can be dampened first.

Boiling: If that doesn’t do the trick, fill a pot with water and bring to a boil on your stovetop. Drop in linens and let steep until stains lift.

Detergent and Borax: Mix dishwasher detergent and borax together until you get a thick rubbing paste. Rub into soiled linens, then rinse clean.

Peroxide: If you have stubborn stains, try spraying them with peroxide, then rinsing with water.

  Laundry

Baking Soda: To gently soften and deodorize a load of laundry, add in 1 cup of baking soda before you put in your regular soap and the clothes.

Borax: For heavily soiled items, add 1/2 cup of borax to your regular detergent. As a bleach alternative, try 1/4 cup of borax mixed with 2 cups of water.

Magnificent Metals

  Silver

 

Aluminum Foil, Boiling Water, Baking Soda and Salt: Keep your sterling shined with this seemingly magic method. Line your sink or a bucket with aluminum foil, and drop in tarnished silver. Pour in boiling water, a cup of baking soda and a dash of salt. Let sit for a few minutes. The tarnish will transfer from the silver to the foil.

Toothpaste: If you can’t immerse your items or are otherwise inclined to polish by hand, rub tarnished silver with toothpaste and a soft cloth. Rinse with warm water and dry. Instead of toothpaste you can substitute a concoction made of 3 parts baking soda to 1 part water

  Copper

 

   Ketchup: To keep your copper pots, pans and accents looking bright and shiny, try rubbing with ketchup.

 

 

Resource: If you want to go deeper and find out how to solve other cleaning conundrums around the house, check out Clean, The Humble Art of Zen-Cleansing, by Michael de Jong.

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Apr 18 2009

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The Top 10 YOU’RE Too OLD to Wear

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Can we always count or rely on the fashion rules? There are always Fashion rules that we would come to know and just liked before, not even 2 decades after… it will be tossed out!  Sure there were rules we have cherished in spite being arbitrary! But, this article I’ve found out helpful to be in good taste and dressed up with a classier look upon reaching a certain (just like ME, over the hill) age and be admired/respected on how you look!

Most of us don’t push the clothes age barrier nearly as far, but even a tasteful fashionista may not always know how to dress appropriately as she moves past 35, 40 and beyond. Walk into any mall and you’ll see a 40-something woman wearing every trend from Forever 21: tight tank top, low-rise jeans, metallic platform heels, plastic bangles and oversized earrings. Are you a middle-aged fashionista who just doesn’t know when to quit? Read on for the top 10 clothing items to leave in the past…

 

4557.gif image by HappyTina_2008The Top10 Y-O-U’R-E too OLD to wear according to our style experts!
  • Message T-shirts
  • Too-trendy denim
  • Costume shoes
  • Micro-mini skirts
  • Anything showing excessive cleavage
  • White, ribbed cotton tank tops
  • Hair gadgets
  • Oversized, overly-decorated hobo bags
  • Cheap, unflattering underwear
  • Loud accessories

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Mar 22 2009

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Ten Unusual Uses of Peanut Butter

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hand.gif image by HappyTina_2008HUH! The wonderful uses of Peanut Butter I’ve actually used this to remove the price tag attached on several items and to untangle my daugher’s hair sometimes during her younger days. I didn’t realize there are 8 more unusual uses for it, amazing!
 
Peanut butter is for some, food of the gods. It can be eaten with chocolate, it can be eaten with jam, it can be smeared on chicken, and it can even be used in drinks!  It seems that the uses for the wonderful stuff are endless. Here’s a list of 10 uses for peanut butter that you probably don’t know. Hopefully there should be at least one or two tips here that everyone
will benefit from.
 

10. Lube it UP

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 Peanut butter is an excellent lubricator. If your lawnmower blades are getting a little tight and rusty - smear on some of the spread and voila - perfect lubrication. This hint is particularly useful because almost every time I need lube, I don’t have any around - but I always have a jar of peanut butter in the cupboard. It can be used for virtually all your lubrication needs

9. Animal Medicine
 
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If you own a cat or a dog, you will know how hard it can be to get them to take their medication - especially when it is in pill form. Fortunately cats and dogs love peanut butter - so next time you have to give them some medication, mix it up with a spoonful and feed it to them. No more struggling with the animal as you hold its mouth open and try to force feed it a bitter pill.

8. Butter Replacement
 
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Most recipes that use butter can be cooked with peanut butter instead. In cookies and cakes this can make a wonderful and subtle taste difference. Next time you are making fudge brownies, try using peanut butter instead - it will be like eating a huge Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup. You can also stir peanut butter into a sauce instead of butter to give it a nutty finish

7. Mousetrap Bait
 
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Mice are not particularly fond of cheese - so it is strange that it is the first food people go for when they are baiting their mousetraps. What most people don’t know is that mice prefer peanut butter - how this has been proven I do not know, but the fact that peanut butter is so much cheaper than cheese, makes this tip a very handy and frugal one. So next time you need to bait a mouse trap, don’t bother loading it with camembert or 5 year aged cheddar, stick on some trusty peanut butter.

6. Price Tag Removal

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Despite the major advances in science in recent years, no one seems to have managed to invent a label that can be removed easily without leaving any glue behind. Fortunately, we have peanut butter. Rub some of the tasty spread on the label glue and rub with a cloth - it works brilliantly.
 
5. De-fish the house
 
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If you have ever fried fish, you will know that it leaves behind a rather unpleasant fishy smell in the house. To help eradicate the smell, take a tablespoon of peanut butter after you have finished frying the fish, drop it in the frying pan and fry it off for a minute or two. The smell of peanut butter is the house is much more enjoyable than stale fish and oil.

4. Leather Cleaner
 
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Peanut butter is an excellent cleaner for leather furniture. Just rub a small amount on and work it in in a circular motion. Remove with a buffing cloth and there you have it! The caveat to this tip is peanut-butter smelling furniture. To avoid that you might want to mix a little perfume oil in it - but not too much. Also, if you do add the perfume, make sure you don’t mix up your jars or you will end up with a peanut butter and jelly sandwich that tastes like mouth wash
 
3. Peanut Butter Cookies
 
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This one doesn’t seem quite so weird, but it is included because these cookies use peanut butter as the main ingredient - there is no flour at all. The cookies are a mix of peanut butter, sugar, egg, and vanilla. You can even throw in a handful of chocolate chips if you wish. The resulting cookies are amazingly tasty and it only takes about 20 minutes from start to finish. You can read the full recipe here, which is also the source of the image above. The site is my sister’s, so check out the other articles too!

2. Gum Remover
 
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While it doesn’t happen quite so often to us adults, children often end up with gum in their hair. This would normally be followed up by a lot of tugging and pulling with a comb to remove it, and the eventual chopping of the locks. But what most people don’t realize, is that peanut butter is a perfect “gum remover” - not only will it remove gum from hair, but it will remove it from carpet and any other object that is tainted with the chewy stuff. Just rub some peanut butter into the gum and you can wipe the whole mess off with a cloth.
 
1. Shave With It
 
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Believe it or not, peanut butter makes a great shaving gel. Just apply it like you would apply the gel, and shave as normal. It works just as well and anyone that has bought a container of shaving gel will know, it is a hell of a lot cheaper. The end result is a very smooth shave and, as a bonus, the oils in the peanut butter are very good for your skin, so you don’t need to spend even more money on moisturizer for your legs or face. You might want to remember to use smooth peanut butter though - the chunky stuff doesn’t work quite as well. If you want to see this in action, a rather foul-mouthed girl has made a youtube clip of herself shaving her legs. You can view it here - but be warned - there is plenty of obscene language so it isn’t safe for work.

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Mar 08 2009

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The BRAIN: 5 Things YOU Didn’t KNOW!

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This kind of surprised me, thinking that our heart was the most energy-consument part of our body! Hmmm…regenerate, kind of made me recall those words I said to my daughter who loved to drink before (she had stopped/thank and praise God) and to make her feel guilty during hangover I would say to her,  ”you just added up some dead cells into your brain!” Icon Lol LOL..What a myth that I really used to believe! 

 

Now, you might want

 to read this…

The brain is the focal point of our entire being. It is the mainframe, the hub and the central processing unit of all thoughts, emotions and actions. Even as such a vital component of human biology, the brain is still the least understood, housing mysteries that in this day and age still remain unsolved: How are memories stored and retrieved? Why do brains sleep and dream? What is consciousness? All these are questions without firm answers. However, there are some interesting facts about the brain that have been uncovered, but that are not generally well known.

 hand.gif image by HappyTina_2008Here are five things

you didn’t know about the brain…

·  Your brain is the most energy-consuming part

of your body

·  Your brain was almost fully grown by age 7

·  Your brain doesn’t feel pain

·  You use more than 10% of your brain

·  Brain cells regenerate

 

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Mar 04 2009

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Incredible Pictures of Bridges!

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Some of these gave me
‘vertigo’ for sure!
 
 
 
TEXAS, Pedestrian Bridge
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This beautiful arched bridge in  Lake   Austin   was a private build by Miro Rivera Architects
and is used to connect the client’s main house to the smaller guest house on the other side of the
 water.  The idea was to make the bridge seem as natural as possible within its surroundings and
to do this they made the decking and reed-like hand rails as imperfect as possible. 
 The result is a bridge that looks extremely fragile but definitely worth the risk.
 
Kintaikyo-Iwakuni,Japan
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The original  Kintai   Bridge was built in 1673 and didn’t stand very long until it was damaged
due to flooding.  It was then rebuilt and survived for more than 200 years until a typhoon
battered it to death in 1950.  The bridge that stands now over the  Nishiki   River is the 3rd
build and looks magnificent, it’s 5 wooden arches displaying an incredible amount of detail and
 craftmanship.  Interesting fact: no nails or bolts have been used to build the arches,
only clamps and wires.
 
Juscelino  Kubitschek   Bridge ,  Brasilia ,  Brazil
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The JK Bridge in  Brasilia   is a lesson in elegant bridge design.  The 3 huge arches diagonally
hopping over the deck of the bridge give the structure an amazing visual fluidity and make the whole
1.2km bridge look effortlessly cool.  Since being built the bridge has won awards for its design
but is still massively underappreciated on a wider scale.
 
Rolling Bridge,  London ,  UK
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Thomas heatherwick’s award-winning rolling bridge is an ingenious addition to the grand
 union canal system in  london and is unique in its design.  Unlike regular movable canal bridges,
 the rolling bridge curls up on itself to form an octagon by way of hydraulics.  It’s an amazing sight and
a reminder that a fresh perspective can produce great, innovative results, even when dealing
 with a structure as common as a bridge.
 
Beipanjiang River Railroad Bridge,  Guizhou ,  China
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Beipanjiang  River  Railroad  Bridge in  Guizhou   is an enormous railway bridge that was built as part of
the much larger ‘Guizhou-Shuibai Railway Project’.  Connecting 2 mountains over a deep ravine, at its highest point
 the bridge’s deck sits 918ft above the ground (to compare, at its highest point the Millau viaduct’s deck clears the river
underneath by 890ft). The bridge has succeeded in connecting 2 of the country’s poorest areas.
 
Henderson Waves, Southern Ridges, Singapore
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‘Henderson Waves’ is Singapore’s highest pedestrian bridge and can be found at the southern ridges, a beautiful
9km stretch of gardens and parks which has frequently drawn comparisons to  New York ’s  Central Park . The bridge
 itself is absolutely stunning.  The deck is made from thousands of Balau wood slats, perfectly cut and arranged,
and along the length of the deck a huge snaking, undulating shell cleverly forms sheltered seating
areas on every upward curve.

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This is the incredible, brand new vertical lift bridge in Rouen, France, a beast of a structurewhose 2 bridge spans weigh 1′200tons each but can be hoisted 180ft vertically by the bridge’s lifting mechanism in an impressive 12 minutes.  Just the angular structures at the top of each tower weigh in at 450tons each, helping to support the lifting system as cruise ships sail through.

 

Hegigio  Gorge   Pipeline   Bridge ,

Southern Highlands Province,  Papua New Guinea

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Technically, this is a bridge: it’s a structure which spans a gorge.  The only difference is, the bridge can’t be used by humans due to the fact that its purpose is to support 2 pipelines - 1 gas, 1 oil - across the extremely high gap in  Papua New Guinea . So high in fact that if this were to be officially recognised as a bridge it would rocket to the top of the ‘world’s highest bridge-span’ list at an impressive height of 1′290ft. By comparison, the current highest bridge span belongs to the  Royal Gorge   Bridge   in  Colorado , hanging a mere 1′053ft above ground level, while  Manhattan ’s  Chrysler Building measures 1′047ft.

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Mar 04 2009

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What A Choice!

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Just the thought of not having a cell phone even though I don’t use it often, it’s just for important calls (always off for sanity) and to give up my online access, I’ll be lost! But, I WOULD be more than lost and in real despair if the warm feeling and assurance of love that my husband gives me everyday is gone forever! True happiness is living a good life and not allowing the pursuit of material things thwart your true values in life. I would rather receive enduring pleasure and satisfaction from investing in life experiences than material possessions. I’ll be able to learn to live without these hi-tech gadgets if I have to! To give up your hubby/partner sounds so extreme and it sure is a n-u-t-c-a-s-e to me!

 

 IF… this study was done in USA, I wonder

  

what were the results would be!?  Now, here’s the

 

amazing news…

 

8716_young_loving_businessman_huggi.png picture by HappyTina_2008GERMAN twenty-somethings would ditch their spouses and do without a car in a heartbeat if they had to choose between having them or Internet access or a mobile phone, according to an industry study.The respondents were aged 19-29, and 84% of them said they would rather do without their current partner or a car than give up their Internet connection.

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Feb 15 2009

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ON Happy Marriage

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Enjoy Being Married

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Find this amazing site, just want to share

The author offers great advice and seems to enjoy helping others remain in lovewithin happy marriages. She’s truly amazing and I do appreciate her knowledge, time and efforts to help others! Bless her heart! SOURCE

 Also, a link to the person’s blog: ASSUME LOVE

  More on Happy Marriage

 

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1.  Put Pen to Paper. Back before cell phones and instant messaging, people wrote letters of affection to each other, often waiting weeks to receive them. “Love letters exchanged between a couple can strengthen their relationship by helping them to connect to one another on a deeper level,” Lilia Fallgatter, author of The Most Important Letter You Will Ever Write: How to Tell Loved Ones How You Feel Before It’s Too Late.

  1. Sleep As Singles. It was TV censors who kept sitcom couples in separate beds, but maybe there was wisdom to catching your ZZZs in your own bed. Many couples who are secure enough to seek satisfying slumber on their own report using the regained energy for more … loving pursuits.
  2. Maintain Same-Sex Friends — and Interests. It’s only been during the past couple of decades that couples expected to share a bulk of their free time together. Retro couples didn’t necessarily want to participate in each others hobbies.
  3. Look Sharp. Les Parrott, PhD, and professor of psychology at Seattle Pacific University, says you can inspire romance by dressing up for the occasion. “Taking time with your appearance inspires romance and shows your partner you care.”
  4. Don’t Go to Bed Angry.  Even if you can’t resolve a disagreement before you hit the sheets, you can agree to let the anger go for the night.
  5. Hit the Dance Floor. Putting on your dancing shoes can put the sizzle back into a relationship that has fizzled.
  6. Have Couples Fun. Bridge and pinochle were common activities shared by our parents and their friends. So was cocktail hour and formal anniversary celebrations with like-minded couples.
  7. Give Compliments. To give a compliment, you’ve got to pay attention — really notice something about someone.
  8. Hold Hands. Back in our parents’ time, hand-holding and discreet pecks on the cheek were the tasteful, chaste displays of affection.
  9. Cut Back on Complaints. Relaying every annoyance is a bad idea. Instead, pick your battles.
  10. Try Thoughtful Little Acts. “The presence of little, daily thoughtful acts showed caring and appreciation for one another,” says licensed clinical social

 

Take a look back on how our parents/grandparents took their marriages with commitments. The longer they were together we see their marriage as companionship in some of them. Now, in our generation we want it all…great sex, romance, and more intimacy!  But, if we bring together these 2 approaches… the previous generation’s gentleness and graciousness and join them in with the technology and savvy of today’s marriage it would be a lesser divorces in the future!

 

 

 

 

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Feb 03 2009

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Valentine Around the Globe!

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Back in third-century Rome when Emperor Claudius II banned marriages because he thought single men made better soldiers, one passionate priest named Valentine continued to wed young lovers. Later imprisoned for his defiance, Valentine fell in love with a young girl who came to visit his cell. Before his death, the story goes, the priest wrote her a letter–the first valentine. Nearly two millennia later, Valentine’s Day rakes in $17 billion in the U.S. But other countries are crashing Cupid’s party too, as shown in the pictures below.

Valentine’s Day In Japan

Japanese women give chocolates to their boyfriends, male friends and co-workers. The men return the favor a month later on March 14, known as White Day, by handing out white chocolates, lingerie and jewelry to their friends and loved ones. Those who dreaded their high school prom would sweat bullets on Valentine’s Day in Japan. “Valentine’s Day has really caught on,” says Jack Santino, professor of folklore and popular culture at Bowling Green State University. He notes, “It is very important to have a date.”

Valentine’s Day

 In Norway

In Denmark and Norway, Valentine’s Day, or Valentinsdag, is not celebrated widely, though some lovers share a romantic meal, exchange cards and give red roses. What Norwegians really love, apparently, is the environment: The country is pushing to import fewer flowers in an attempt to become the world’s first carbon-neutral economy by 2050.

Valentine’s Day

In Iran


Muslims don’t exactly embrace Cupid. However, Valentine’s Day is gaining traction with the younger, more Westernized crowd, says Iranian-American filmmaker Shaghayegh Azimi, who has captured some of the romance in her movies. Increasingly, stores decorate windows with stuffed animals, heart-shaped chocolates and red balloons, and teenagers show their affection by holding hands and strolling though the alleys of Tehran together.

Valentine’s Day

In Mexico

Cupid’s definitely a hit in Mexico. According to Jennifer Hirsch, professor of socio-medical sciences at Columbia University, the “red rain” begins as soon as Christmas is over. It is common for Mexican men and women to exchange flowers, red balloons, anything red and heart-shaped. The gift-giving is both an expression of love and prosperity, says Hirsch. Migrant laborers in particular demonstrate their success by treating their loved ones.

Valentine’s Day

In Vietnam

Valentine’s Day is a new tradition in Vietnam. As recently as the late 1990s, there were no card shops or Valentine’s Day celebrations to speak of, says Harriet Phinney, a professor of anthropology at the University of Washington who has researched love and courtship around the globe. Yet on a recent visit, Phinney noticed banners with Valentine messages strung over the main streets inviting young people to attend Valentine’s Day celebrations. Married couples tend not to participate, though: “In Vietnam, romance is ‘for before you are married,’” says Phinney.

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                                               Melanie Lindner

 

 

 

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